Marriage Counseling
Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment... dreaming that love will save us, solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy, undermining the real power of love - which is to transform us." - Bell Hooks
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Pre-Martial
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Congratulations, you have found that one person you are ready to spend the rest of your life with. It's time for preparation for your big day. You have to decide who will be invited, what will everyone wear, where will it be held but most importantly how will you make it last. Marriage is not a "happily ever after" fairytale but a "Once Upon a Time" beginning in which reality swiftly takes over and the real work begins. Life will throw many curve balls and will not play fair. So you have to plan and prepare for the many challenges that lie ahead. Marriage is more than just how you feel about the other person but how they manage their finances, do they have debts? What is their parenting styles or do you agree on children? What about family traditions and expectations? What are your standards for the in-laws? Can mother dearest stay for a week, a month, a year, indefinitely? Premier Transformation prepare you for one the most difficult yet most rewarding adventures that lie ahead. We will instill the secrets of success that will help you endure the test of time.
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"Love is not maximum emotion. Love is maximum commitment" - Sinclair B. Ferguson
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Post-Vows
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There is no nice way to put it, marriage is hard. The sound of sweet wedding bells will be replaced by glaring alarm clocks. Suits and ballroom gowns will be packed away and only pictures on display will remain. Now, things are not the way you thought they would be. Simple conversations turn into arguments that seem to have no solution. You find yourself at extremes with emotions flaring or just completely lacking. You are starting to feel like a lifetime is just too much to ask and you are truly questioning if you made a big mistake. Feelings have been hurt, words have been said, things have been done and there is no changing the pass but there is hope for the future. With an open-mind, honesty and a dose commitment Premier Transformation can help you both get back on the same track. No, we do not promise it will be easy and surely life will happen but you can be prepared to deal with whatever is to come.
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" Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. To love somebody isn't just a strong feeling. It is a decision, a judgement and a promise." - Paulo Coelho
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